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| ARTICLE | Why I Stopped Pitting African American Women Vs African Women |
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“The majority of my failed relationships with African American women were solely my fault.” |
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o1 What was disingenuous in this was that I didn’t take into consideration the African American women that I dated before this relationship and the one that I dated after treated me equally as well or even better than the African women who I dated and encountered in Africa. Read More |
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“When does a man become a man? When he quickens to correct his mistakes.” Dynast Amir |
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02 The vast majority of men who I know in polygamous relationships shared with me that, “I would be crazy to even get involved in one.” Read More |
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03 Many of us, both men and women, instead of admitting our faults and taking ownership of our past wrongs, we choose to instead deflect. This is a sign of immaturity. Read More |
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